love, pain and hate

long-term love, turns into a habit;
long-term pain, turns into a scar;
long-term hate, turns into a burden.

some updates

I remembered that someone asked me "why you Chinese couple get married and then separate?" Ok, I don't know the answer, but now it's my turn, as Ying will go to California for school for 4 months. Don't feel terrible for me, I am fine (no you should not be fine, I know I know). I know it is bad thing to say, but marriage sometimes is stressful. So I can have more freedom and be more concentrated on my own stuff.

Well, besides that, there are some good news. I will defend my Ph.D. in this September, after that I will work as a research associate in this university. I am still waiting for a response from NASA to work there, that might takes a few months. Then next month I will have another interview.

Bar or church?